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On Petite Women

"You don't need to be 'petite' to be beautiful. Being 'curvy' doesn't mean your 'fat.'"- Unknown

"When people meet me in person, they're usually surprised at how petite I am because there's just [an] idea that because I'm black I just look a certain way.-" Misty Copeland
 
There are many petite women that know me and that I have met many years ago. Some of them include:

Akua Akoto

Afia Akoto

Kadiatou Conte

Dr. Berryman-Johnson

Dr. Hazel Harper

Carlo Perlo

Sylvia Soumah

Maria Tukeva

Kathryn Larkin

Elizabeth Thompson

Brittany Rytter

Debbie Pridgen

Oni Faida

Eloise Greenfield

Now, what is the point of picking on petite women? Are you attracted to petite women? Or do you just like harassing them? Try to get to know the person before passing quick judgements. Personally, as a petite women for over 20 years, I am tired of people picking on me because of my height. I am more than my height and size. 

 

 

 

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